oh, joy

Posted Tuesday, May 17, 2011 // 0 comments (+)

#446.
I don't think we have the right to say anything about anyone who supposedly 'moves on too quickly'. Well, according to my theory, it's not that they want to be reattached as soon as possible due to well, the fact that they're attached! I don't know, but I hope you get me.
I don't think I'm ever going to say, she moved on so fast she's (insert negative adjective here). Cause I think I've just figured it out.

When you first meet the person, the relationship builds at a pace that is so gradual, yet so progressive. You begin as strangers, and then one day, without realising how it happened, you are at the stage of relationship. (That sounds weird but fk it.) It doesn't stop there, the two of you keep progressing, you earn habits like msging them every spare second of your day, goodnight calls, goodmorning calls, little love notes in your stuff where you don't expect them to be, warm hugs when you're down, kisses for when, well, when are kisses not appropriate? :)

But that's it. You get unhappy and you go your seperate ways. What was built up so gradually breaks in a matter of seconds, or minutes, however you decide to handle it. All of a sudden, no more unexpected text messages, no one to wish you goodnight, you're lucky if you get sleep at all. No love notes, no one to keep you warm in the cold and not a single kiss. It hurts, it really does, I can understand.

And that's where moving on quickly comes in. You find yourself another boy or girl that you can form a hasty attachment to, so that all your habits from the old are revived. Incoming texts from a name you're not used to, goodnights in a different tone of voice, love notes in different handwriting, hugs and kisses.
I don't blame them for finding habits hard to break. It's hard to stop biting my nails, oh children, I feel your pain.

I don't like the words, just the picture.
On an about my day note, there was no school and I spent the day with Herms, listening to old music, crying, cuddling, eating and chilling. It was a good day today.